What we keep, and for how long

What's saved: the two first names you type, the characters you pick, your dates and choices, and the answers your date sends back.

Who can see it: the person with the invite link sees the invite. Only the person with the private answers link sees the answers.

How long: every invite and its answers are deleted automatically 45 days after the invite is made.

Tips: leaving a tip is optional and is handled by PayPal. Your card details go straight to PayPal and never touch this site. We keep only PayPal's payment number, the amount, and whether it went through. PayPal's own privacy policy covers what PayPal keeps, and PayPal may set its own cookies when the tip box loads.

What we don't do: no accounts, no ads, no selling data, no tracking cookies. We don't ask for phone numbers or emails.

Want something deleted sooner? Contact the site owner and include the invite link.